Donna Marie (Valentini) Sullivan

It is with heavy hearts, but immense gratitude for her life, that we announce the passing of our beloved wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and friend, Donna Sullivan. Donna left us peacefully on January 11, 2025, at the age of 83. Her family and friends were by her side as she departed, surrounded by love and prayer.

Donna Marie Valentini was born on Thursday, July 10, 1941, in Anaconda, Montana, to Deno and Marguerite Valentini. She was the sister of Rick Valentini. From an early age, Donna wasn’t one to hold back—whether she was making you laugh, offering advice, or telling it like it was. Donna had a personality that was larger than life. She loved with intensity, lived with passion, and approached every day with the boldness of someone who knew exactly who she was and wasn’t afraid to show it.

Donna is preceded in death by the love of her life, Dr. James Joseph Sullivan II. She leaves behind her children: Jim Sullivan (Amy), Nancy (Larry) Iverson, Julie (Jeff) Winkler, Danny (Sarah) Sullivan; and her grandchildren: Jimmy, Katie, Larry, Logan, Elizabeth, Mackenzie, Amaya, Evan, Lukas, Ryan; her great-grandchildren: Eastyn, James, Brooks, Elliotte, Sophia, Clay, Jaxon, Teddy, Eva, Archer, baby Iverson; and many extended family members and friends whose lives she touched with love and grace.

Her love for Jim was the cornerstone of her life. Their bond was true, and their partnership stood as a testament to the strength of their love. From morning kisses to sharing a drinkie poo at the end of the day, Donna and Jim were a team in every sense of the word. They worked hard together, built a beautiful life, and raised a family that they both cherished deeply.

Donna’s discipleship for the Lord was evident throughout her life. She never stopped sharing her faith—whether it was leading devotionals, praying with caregivers, or guiding others to Christ. Even those who didn’t believe in Jesus left her presence with a changed heart, having accepted Him as their Lord and Savior. Her faith, kindness, and loving spirit will never be forgotten.

Donna had the biggest heart—she loved, mothered, and gave to everyone she encountered. If you ever spent time at Raffia, you knew Donna made everyone feel welcome and at ease. People often joked that shopping with Donna on Wednesdays, her full day of work, was like attending a “therapy session” where you could share your problems with her without fear of judgment. She had an amazing ability to listen, offer her honest advice, and help you feel better in the process. Many came just to see her; Donna was the heart of Raffia.

Donna’s keen sense of character was evident in her relationships. She had high expectations, especially when it came to those she loved. She wasn’t afraid to speak her mind and had a knack for judging character. Donna was a true believer in faith, though she never pretended to be perfect. She was the first to admit to her high school antics, including sneaking a cigarette in the bathroom and keeping the nuns on their toes. While her politics made for some lively conversations, Donna’s heart was always in the right place.

The lifelong friendships that Donna and Jim cultivated were unwavering. They made everyone feel like family. There was always a kiss on the cheek, an invitation to sit down, have a beer, and chat—no matter the time or place. Donna treated everyone like one of her own, and we all felt part of something truly special. Their circle of friends was filled with genuine love, and distance or time away never changed that—when you picked up the phone or walked through the door, it was as if no time had passed at all.

Donna also had a passion for hosting. She devoted many years to her PEO group and loved being the one to host, ensuring everything—from the table setting to the decorations—was just perfect. She took immense pride in making her home beautiful and sharing it with others. No matter the occasion, Donna always looked impeccable, whether she was dressed for an event or in her comfiest pajamas; she always looked put together with her red lipstick on.

A vigil will be held at 6 p.m. on Monday, January 20, 2025, at Michelotti-Sawyers Mortuary and Crematory. The funeral mass to honor and celebrate Donna’s life will be held on Tuesday, January 21, 2025, at St. Thomas the Apostle Church at 10 a.m., with a gravesite viewing and reception to follow. There, we will share stories, laughter, and memories of a woman who was truly one of a kind. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to Chapter Y P. E. O, a cause close to Donna’s heart.

Though Donna is no longer with us, her spirit, love, and laughter will continue to guide us all. Rest in peace, Donna—you were the most perfect angel, and we will carry your memory with us forever.